A referral is a favour. Make it easy and low-pressure.
Do your homework
Know the exact role, why you fit and what you have already done to prepare. Attach your resume.
Keep the message short
- Who you are, in one line
- The role you are applying for and a link
- Two reasons you are a good fit
- A clear, polite ask, with permission to decline
Whatever the answer, say thank you. A referral never guarantees an interview or an offer.